Pink Cereal and Raspberries

This is why I do not make decisions right away. I have a rule - wait 24 hours before going ahead with a major decision. I thought I wanted to get with this guy...I didn't make any official decisions. I simply did my research (talked to a friend) and thought about things. I thought about the REAL reasons why I didn't go ahead with a relationship last May, when we were sort-of "dating." I thought about how he'll get a joke or how we'll connect on one point and then TOTALLY miss on something else. I realized that we just don't understand each other all that well and probably never will. Also, I'm at a point in my life where I want to get married - every date is a potential mate. I know that I don't want to marry him, so why should I go out with him...the relationship wouldn't lead anywhere, and I wouldn't be into the relationship, knowing that I would never marry him. I want a real connection with someone...and I can tell pretty early on whether or not that's going to happen. It just won't happen with him. The moral of the story is: I'm glad that I didn't rush into telling him that I like him or something crazy like that. I'm satisfied with my decision, and I'm moving on with my silly little life.